Chaotic Whim: some of y'all have it fucked up.

Monday, January 10, 2011

Chaotic Whim: some of y'all have it fucked up.

dopegirlfresh:

so lemme run it down for you:

rape isn’t funny.

molestation isn’t funny.

mocking and/ or blaming victims makes you an asshole.

coercion is not the same thing as full consent.

the sexuality of another human being is not for your mockery.

the traumatic experiences of…

Rape isn’t funny. No, not prison rape. No, not the rape of old people or fat people or other “undesirables.” Not animal rape. And you don’t get to define the meaning of rape…penetrative or not, oral, manual, marital, intoxicated…the victim decides the degree of violation and trauma, NOT YOU.

Also, not the rape of dudes, Get Him to the Greek and Eurotrip and every other movie that has ever shown a dude BLATANTLY BEING ASSAULTED by a woman for the lulz.

(ALSO? It’s not funny when people get upset about rape. Even if they’re black and/or poor and/or really, really agitated. So think about that before you dress your fucking dog up like Antoine Dodson, hipsters.)